day twenty-six
(5 things you look for in a person/relationship)
1. first and foremost, someone around whom i can be myself. if i cant be comfortable enough with someone to let them see me at my worst, then they sure as hell dont deserve me at my best.
2. someone i can talk to about anything and everything. i dont like feeling like i have to censor myself. and i would not want to be with someone i dont feel close enough to to share my thoughts with.
3. someone with whom i share some common interests. lets face it, if we have absolutely nothing in common, then we probably will never work out. i mean, im all up for compromising and doing stuff that i dont necessarily like but they like, and letting them do things with me that i like that they dont necessarily enjoy, but when absolutely nothing is a common ground, then it just gets tiring.
4. that brings me to my next point: someone who is willing to compromise. people are different, so were bound to run into conflicts. if we can successfully work together to come up with something that works for the both of us, then i feel like were a solid team. go us!
5. and finally, someone who is there for me when i need him, and even when i dont; someone who cares for me.
(in case you really want shallow things though, i look for: 1. intelligence, 2. sense of humor, 3. maturity, 4. physically attractive, and 5. a british accent)